My mom has Alzheimer's and lives in a long term care home in London Ontario. Her memory is weak but her personality is still strong. She doesn't remember my name anymore -- I don't think she knows who I am, but she is very happy to see me. I don't get to see her as much as I'd like as she's a 5 hour flight away. I miss our weekly phone calls, it just doesn't work anymore.
She's always loved people and when I do get a chance to visit she's often walking hand-in-hand with a friend. And talking. She still loves being with people and she loves to talk. Her mannerisms, gestures, tone of voice and gleam in her eye are the same but the words aren't right, so most of what she says doesn't make much sense. But that's OK. It's still a pleasure to spend time with her.
Many things are new again to her. When we take her for a walk around the facility, she seems to see the world through the eyes of a child, rediscovering the beauty of the world.
She loves music, especially live music and she taps her toes and sings along. She walks a lot, but claims she doesn't eat. She's as beautiful as ever. I so love my mom.
Larry,
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to hear that your mom has Alzheimer's, it sounds like a difficult situation for you.
My prayers go out to you and your family.
ROB
p.s. - my friend Concord Pastor sent me to your blog. Well done sir.
Hi Rob,
ReplyDeleteThanks for leaving your kind words. I’ve come to accept my Mom’s Alzheimer’s and am at peace with it. It is a tragic disease but I’m comforted knowing she’s safe, well cared for and happy. Suffering and death is part of life and I find acceptance of a particular situation a key to coping. Plus there are so many things in my life that I am grateful for -- I am very fortunate.
By the way, you have a special friend in Concord Pastor and you seem to a special person too. I really appreciate your concern and thoughtful comments.
Larry